in a relationship..

I chance upon this blog.

She is an acquaintance to me.

I dun really know what tragedy that she has been thru.

But i noe her man has let her down...

he has the cheek to come back and ask for her return aft wat he has done to her..

when i say let her down isit lik child's play.. lik kid lik tt type( betray her.. or left her during his NS or sth on par) i mean major let down.. he left her when she was helpless.. he abandoned her when he was at fault too..

i feel sad.. why.. often when a ger entrusts herself to a guy.. things like this happen?

i am not very hopeful..
Things like hers often happen.. it is very saddening...

I mean is very normal that one enjoy the feeling of being in love.. but... can ur heart really be able to go thru all the sharp pains.. esp when u noe that things are changing??? or when ur ONE abandoned you when you desperately need Him/her?

That is why for some.. they back out once they noe things are different.. becuase no matter how tough they may appear.. they are more afriad than anyone to get hurt in a realtionship...

but some still struggle and end up hurting themselves and the other parties...

what would u do ? the former or the latter?